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 I live for her
Tradition would like it white, ivory fashion; the important thing is that the dress enhances the beauty and personality of the bride.
On that day, the custom wants the bride to wear something blue, something borrowed and something new and in any case feel comfortable.
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 Favors
They represent a significant gift that the spouses offer to guests as a souvenir of the big day. The tradition wants them to be classic made of crystal, silver, ceramic, limoges and above all the same for everyone, there are no relatives and friends of the 'B' series.
According to etiquette, they should be sent to guests 20 days after the wedding; instead for convenience they are personally delivered by the spouses on the wedding day.
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 Kit
By now it is no longer the mother who chooses him in the years before the wedding, but directly by the bride a few months earlier, so as not to risk having towels that clash with the bathroom tiles or tablecloths that are oversize compared to the dining table.
An average kit includes:
- kitchen linen;
- tablecloths for the dining room;
- bed linen;
- bathroom linen.
(Her family should take care of the kit)
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 Fedi
The gold wedding ring is the most common even if fashion recommends the white ones in platinum. They are chosen by both spouses but purchased by him who must also remember to bring them to church on the wedding day.
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 Wedding list
In order to prevent the newlyweds from receiving double gifts, it is customary to go to a shop specializing in objects, household items, appliances where to draw up the wedding list.
This custom comes from the USA but has now also become part of etiquette.
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 Investmment
They must be sent at least two months before the date.
The choice of style is the task of the spouses but tradition has it that the parents are to participate jointly in the marriage of the children on the card: in the upper left the name of the parents of the bride who announce the marriage of the daughter (first name) with the future spouse (name and surname); in the upper right the parents of the groom repeating the same formula. Bottom center: the place, date and time of the wedding. Finally at the bottom the respective addresses.
The smallest ticket, for the guests at the reception, is part of the participation itself.
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 I live for him
First of all, it is necessary to distinguish whether the ceremony is held in the morning or in the afternoon: in the first case the tight is recommended, in the second the tailcoat only if the ceremony is particularly solemn and formal. In both cases, if the groom decides to wear these clothes, the two fathers and the witnesses will also have to adapt.The alternative is an elegant gray suit with a single-breasted jacket, perhaps with a vest and tie to match, strictly the white shirt socks long black and lace-up shoes.
No categorical to the Smoking.
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 Bouquet
The custom wants the groom to have it delivered to the bride's house in the morning even if in reality it is the bride herself who chooses it as it must harmonize with her dress. At the end of the reception it will be launched at random among all the unmarried girls: those who manage to grab it should get married within the year.
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 Family law
At the time of the wedding, the couple must decide whether to opt for communion or for the separation of property, which regulate the rules of ownership. After the service, both religious and civil, the chosen regime must be communicated to the priest or state official. It is essential to inquire carefully about the various aspects.
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 Flovers
The choice of the decoration is very important as the flowers give joy and joy to the church and to the reception; but as in all things, one should not exaggerate the quantity and intensity of the perfume.
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 Honeymoon
It marks the beginning of the two-person life that began in full relaxation. The chosen destinations can be both the tropics and any other city: the important thing is not to give up because if you postpone it you will lose those typical sensations of the honeymoon.
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 Receipt
The choice of place is varied: you could opt for the home of a family of the spouses (if it is large enough), for a restaurant or a large hotel, or for a villa. In the latter case, you must contact a catering company that takes care of the service.
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 Pothoshoot
It is important that the spouses choose a serious professional to whom they can entrust the photo and video service; as over time, in addition to the memory, the sensations and emotions that a valid photographer can bring back and keep intact over time are lost.
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 Hairstyle
It is important that the bride a month before the wedding turns to a professional coiffeur to touch up the color, the cut and choose the most appropriate hairstyle for the dress, face, personality.
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 Church
It must be booked well in advance, at least 9 months before, especially if you choose a parish other than that of the spouses and in this case you must ask for permission. (Information and photos on (churches)
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 Confetti
Packaged in precious bags, once in tulle and today in lace, they are strictly white and almond-shaped. They must be inserted, together with the note with the name of the spouses always in odd numbers: three or five.
Tradition has it that the married couple turns between the tables after cutting the cake. The groom will hold a silver tray with sugared almonds and the bride will serve them to the guests with a silver spoon also in odd numbers.
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 Documents
Documents and certificates) Documenti e certificati)
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 Invited
They are expected to arrive in church earlier than that of the bride and will be received in the churchyard by the closest relatives of the spouses.
As for the arrangement in the church on the right of the nave, his family, relatives and friends will sit down, while her retinue will be on the left. At the end of the ceremony, the bride and groom will wait in the churchyard for the auspicious launch of the rice.
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 Machine
Here the choice is remarkable: from dad's car to the rental of a vintage car with driver or even to a carriage with horses everything depends on the style you want to give to your wedding. The important thing is that common sense and good taste are not lacking.
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 Acknowledgments
The bride and groom should have some thank you cards printed for all people who have sent a gift or a card within a month of the wedding.
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 Witnesses
They are fundamental figures who guarantee the legality of marriage and that is why they must be of age. The law provides for one for each of the spouses but the custom can reach a maximum of three.
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